A Ghanaian lawyer and content creator identified as Chris-Vincent Agyapong on Facebook has sparked mixed reactions after a making a post, advising women to choose men who guarantee them “soft lives” despite age differences or marital preference.
Mr. Agyapong used Nigerian actress and Nollywood star, Regina Daniels as a case study for his post, while mocking those ladies who claim they do not want a polygamous husband, that they want their own man for themselves and are not ready to share him with another lady/ies.
The lawyer advised women to choose men who can take care of their material wants, even that man is already married to different other women, and no matter the age difference, pointing out that Regina Daniels is 24, but chose to marry 64-years-old Ned Nwoko.
He said, the Nollywood actress made the best decision of her life in marrying Ned Nwoko, despite the gossips, criticisms and badmouthing that trailed her. Yet she is living her best life, why those people who mocked her decision cannot have half of what she has.
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Chris-Vincent Agyapong wrote:
“Where are the delulu people who say “I cannot share my man” or “I want my own man?”
This woman, 24 years old, has lived a beautiful life because of the man who chose her (Ned, 64 years old). Her life so far is better than the combined lives of three generations of some of us.
And the important thing is, her children (bloodline) would benefit greatly from her life decision and her break away from toxic advice from modern society, especially women.
If you are a woman below 30 years, this is your cocoa season–don’t let any person (especially women over 30) who have wasted their youth to advise you on the sort of love or relationship you should be involved in.
It was not only cultural but also wise to be with older men as a young woman–for the fact that they have lived life, have the resources and have the knowledge to lead and make your “bloodline” better.
And these men, if High Value, like Ned, have the option to multiple–they have earned it in every sense of it. He has beaten the “matrix” and the reward is that he has a right to options.
How many of these men out there can offer you any sort of Soft Life? If you choose to suffer, it is your own decision.
My advice to my daughters will be: make sure the man who is choosing you can give you a Soft Life. That is all that matters–else you are on your own and your “bloodline” may suffer.
This could be the best decision Regina Daniels has made in her life with a generational impact.
It is wise to be the 50th wife or partner of Ned than to be the only wife or partner of that useless man, Joe Boy, you call “yours.”
Your decisions today will not only affect your future but also that of your children and grandchildren.”
A lot of people have disagreed with his submission, pointing out that not everyone is interested in material things in marriage.
One Kate Ogah reacted saying;
“It depends on what you consider a good life. If a good life means a woman cannot share her man, then let her make her choice.
Ultimately, a good life is subjective and can be shaped by individual values, experiences, and goals.”
Rmg RiRi wrote;
“Married to the money. This type of Marriage happens in Africa because of poverty.”
Nana Kwamena Ansah III said;
“Life choices can make or unmake us..she’s lucky to have married her grandfather’s age mate.”
Reena Shyne wrote saying;
“I remember when She married him , eei come and see bashing , I even said some and now we all are admiring her”
