Na’ima, a young lady who left her marriage prior to an abusive relationship, has decided to share with the public that she will never advise women to leave their marriages.
She stated that she won’t advise them to leave their marriages over maltreatment from their spouse. She wrote on her Facebook page that she won’t give such advice because it was a decision for the woman who is in such a toxic marriage to make.
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Her Facebook post read:
“I’m a young divorced lady. However, no matter the complains, maltreatment you get from your spouse, know that I will be the last person to ever advice you leave your marriage. Wallahi, even if you’re my sister, I come to your house and meet her with broken eyes and lips, I will never ask you to leave your husband as it is your sole decision to make and not mine.”
“I made my own decision by leaving, damned all consequences, ready to face the challenges and cared less about what people would say. No be mouth them dey tell blind man say rain dey fall.”
Her message has received diverse reactions from social media users:
Muhammad Isah said: “You’re beautiful but you should go and seek your husband in the community not platforms.“
Nerjaatoh Ismaeel said: “I love encouraging words no matter what little they are, and I get alot when ever I read your posts thank u , may God bless.”
Zaynerb Bayero Aliyu “Apt. The advice I never gave and will never. I made my decision, they should make theirs.”
Omar H Gidado “If you faced trouble in your past marriage it’s not mean all others are facing the same, no matter what a woman is a woman and man is a man and there must be a leader and followers that’s it. Mrs feminist.”
Kabiru Ismail said: “You already take your decision and what is the point for coming in to Facebook and telling us, did we ask? What is the aims ? What do you wanna teach? Useless post! We have to fine something important to post please.”
Babalola Taoreed said: “Well, Sister Na’ima, as far as I am concerned, I won’t hesitate to advise those in toxic relationships – both male & female, to “run o!”
