Woman advises fellow women that too much hustling is not good, that’s why they must marry already made and kind man.
A woman identified by her Facebook handle as Precious Chiwendu has caused an uproar on social media as she advised her fellow women to reduce the level at which they worked to make a living for themselves and their family.
Her advise was directed at both married and single women. However, she claimed it irks her to see married women doing different kinds of businesses all together while their husbands are there.
“You have been hustling as a single lady, you need to enjoy your husband house, find one business and be doing, not jack of all trades! Have time for yourself and take care of yourself. Your husband should do better please,” she wrote.
She said married women are supposed to leave hustling for their husbands, while they do the little things to help their family and most importantly, take care of themselves.
That married women should not carry everything on their head as if they are super women. They (women) are meant to support not carry family loads on their heads.
Precious acknowledged that some of the married women often appear happy on social media, but deep down, they are not happy, because they know they deserve better.
She said, “And I know you will always come here and show us smiling face but behind closed doors you know you deserve better. You must not hustle like a man, let your man do it himself.”
She also warned the single ladies of marrying men who have nothing tangible doing or means of supporting their family.
“Too much hustling is not good please, that’s why you must marry already made and kind man, even if he is not already made, let him have something that can sustain his family,” Precious Chiwendu wrote.
While a lot of women agreed with her, some men countered her position, arguing that she is encouraging single women to be lazy and unproductive.
Some used the popular slang that “what a man can do, a woman can do better”, to buttress their points of women often seeking equality in their marital homes.
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